Friday, January 29, 2010

a mystique word to be defined...

When you happen to be under a tree of falling leaves in an autumn,you probably think for a while...it looks a bit incomplete.These are the leaves which are falling freely today,used to be an integral part of the very same tree ever,but it's a matter of time so that they are touching the ground.But the time does come again when the tree regains it's completeness and starts looking like it used to be.

What did you think..??

Well you carry on...
What i felt, it's just an unseen bond of unconditional love between these leaves and the tree or you can say a longing to live together or you can also say a craving to complement each other selflessly,turned that kind of incompleteness into completeness.
I just simply say it a RELATIONSHIP.
Relationship is a recipe and the ingredients of it may vary based on the taste of individuals accordingly.But some components are mandatory.I'm just going to try to figure it out.
You people may have heard about a word named EMOTION.We are mistaken always when we say it's the word concerns about those who are too weak to make decisions of their life,it may be true but not always.
In fact when we start feeling something transcendentally,at the very same moment a very different kind of stream starts flowing in the ocean of our psyche and out of this flow a strange kind of sense engulfs our mind and heart both,this is what i want to say a little about EMOTIONS.
That's why i wanted to make a point that this is very essential part of any relationship.And i don't think that even a single person exists on this earth, who
doesn't have this precious possession.Perhaps it is the reason which can make a difference that we are living beings.
When we are in any kind of relationship,it is the emotion that keeps guiding us to carry it on in the long run.
If we take a look at any machine we just find, it comprises a lot of components and every part of it has its own responsibility and has a sort of relationship among all as well.Only then they are able to work properly.
now you may be thinking that i said before a while, emotions play a vital role carrying any relationship on.But if we talk about machines we just can't even imagine about some emotional quotient,still they are getting along well then how the emotions are essential...???
Well now let me explain what i can..
They(machine's part) are together just because they need each other until the machine stops working.They are together out of some logic .if some parts don't work as they are supposed to be,they are just replaced by another more efficient one without any hesitation and like this the machine keeps working.The process keeps on going....
but friends..!!FEELINGS are not supposed to be logical,and dangerous is the man who rationalized his emotions.Living beings are together not because of that petty cause of being needy of each other but this togetherness is the demand of the relationship.You can say this relationship does need both and the feelings for everyone are unique they can never be substituted .
And one more thing to say is,the broken hearts can not be mended like machine parts.Thats the difference.
So as we are at the starting of any relationship we remain throughout of it.I do agree with the fact that time changes,priorities changes but feelings stand still and in short they never fade till our last breath count.

Another thing that is TRUST has to be there where relationships exist..
I define it into my words goes like....
When our presumptions for each other start becoming true,then we can say this is the belief towards the one which makes it happen.So this trust we give to someone we love and without being bothered about the consequences.And now it's all your fate ,that how one keeps your TRUST...


to be continued..........

4 comments:

  1. lots of good luck for this new start.........

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  2. i will be needed sum words likes of u at my every stride of dis journey...

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  3. nice work man its really gud kyunki ab meri understanding thodi si badh gayi hai to thats y i hav understand it.......... may god bless u....

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  4. i got your attention 2 my words..it's more dan enuf 4 me....i'll try 2 continue further wid the same..

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